I. The Vocations Director

In the past, a Vocation Director's primary responsibility was to recruit new members into a religious order. But with major changes in the world and the church, many people struggle with making a definitive commitment to a person, group or ideology.

As a result, the Vocation Director's role has changed. His ministry now includes helping others in their vocational discernment rather than just recruiting.

Vocational discernment is generally a lengthy process. Your vocation is an unfolding gift that God has entrusted to you. It is a journey that can be both exciting and lonely. The Vocation Director serves as a link of friendship, support, and information on a course only you can chart. A third companion on this journey is the Holy Spirit, whose love and guidance both men seek.

II. The Vocation Process

For many people, the first inclination toward religious life begins as a feeling. This feeling can manifest itself in many ways. It might be a desire to serve the Church, a strong feeling toward helping others, an attraction to community life, a sense that something essential is lacking in your life, or even a cherished childhood memory of a priest or religious.

Whatever your particular feelings, their genuineness is attested to by their persistence. No matter how much you may have tried to deny the feelings, they don't seem to go away. Finally, you have decided to explore these feelings in greater detail by contacting the Franciscan Friars, TOR.

The initial communication between us will be through letters. This will allow you to express your feelings and reflections in an uninterrupted way. We may also talk on the phone. In this informal way, we can get to know one another and grow more comfortable in our relationship.

During this initial discernment, we may decide to meet on a more personal basis in order to talk at greater length. The next step will be for you to meet other members of our community in order to broaden your perspective of our particular religious life.

III. Come & See Weekend

The Franciscan Friars, sponsor "Come & See Weekends" throughout the year for men who are interested in learning more about our way of life. The weekend provides you the opportunity to discuss the religious vocation with others, to share in the prayer life of our community, to talk with the friars, to learn more about the Franciscan way of life, and to meet privately with friars of the formation staff.

The weekend also provides times of prayer and liturgy in a relaxed atmosphere that is conducive to personal reflection. We want to provide you the opportunity to learn more about yourself, God, the nature of the religious vocation, and the particular charism of our Franciscan Order.

IV. Application Process

After attending a "Come & See Weekend" and if you have expressed an interest in joining our community, the Admissions Committee will discuss a person’s readiness for religious life. You may be asked to attend another "Come & See Weekend" and/or spend a few days visiting one of our formation houses for additional interaction with our community. This allows our community to get to know you better so we can better understand and assist you.

If you do decide to apply to our community and permission of the Admission Committee is given, you will need to obtain:

  • Educational transcripts
  • Sacramental records
  • Letters of recommendation
  • Physical/dental exam
  • Psychological testing

Once you have submitted your application, you should continue regular spiritual direction. If you do not yet fully qualify for admission or you wish to delay your admission, you should continue your vocational discernment with a spiritual director. We also encourage you to maintain periodic contact with the Vocation Director and our community. During this time, we would expect you to be either working or attending school.

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